Relationships

I am begining to think that the best relationships come from what you do with the down times in your relationships. What you learn from them and how you grow from them. I think that no matter who you have a relationship with whether it be your parents or your spouse or your girlfriends, that when you have those down moments its what you do with them that makes your relationship stronger and better or breaks it all to pieces. I am thankful so much for the opportunities for friendship that I have. Some things if my life have recently come into the light. I can' t make people love me, but I can love them no matter what. I can choose how to love them and when. And when it comes right down to things, even if things fall all to pieces then I still know that the Lord loves me and is there for me when I fall down and scrape my knees. I am truly blessed in this area of my life. Sometimes relationships are complicated and confusing. But the best of relationships have seen their fair share of disagreements, discouragement, unhappiness, unkindness. Its the fact that they simply choose to forgive and move on and love you for who you are, and not what you are supposed to be.